Self confidence. If you asked me to describe the meaning of the word, I don’t know what definition I would give. What words could embrace the whole range it covers? Is it a feeling? Is it a way of thinking? Is it a lifestyle?
It may seem much simpler to describe her, but if you sit down and analyze it, you will see that she hides so much inside her. I will content myself with characterizing self-confidence as the image we have of ourselves. It is what we believe about ourselves. Hard thing to say what you think about yourself. Do you focus on the positives, the negatives, the things that bother you, or the things you like? How do you ultimately come up with what you believe about yourself?
I do not know. It has always troubled me and will always trouble me how you gain confidence and how you cultivate it and how you use it. But here we will not comment on this because an article cannot solve these questions that I have raised. What I can tell you for sure is that whatever confidence is, however you get it, it has a big influence on your life. Whether it is interpersonal relationships with friends, relatives, partners, people with whom there is something romantic between you. Be it your work, your school, your school, your hobbies and your activities. Whether it’s a speech you have, a coffee with a new girlfriend, a first date.
You will have a more positive result if everything works with confidence as an ally. It’s good to have that “air”. What is more beautiful and wonderful than a man who knows his strengths, who steps firmly on his feet and feels confident? It is beautiful to believe in your strengths, in your good qualities and to use them to your advantage.
Another positive of self-confidence is knowing the negative characteristics of yourself and using them for something positive, because all negatives exist for a reason. Self-confidence is the “fuel” of your productivity, the next steps you will take, the successes, but also the release from the feelings of failure. Confidence is there to support yourself and go for whatever you want.
So stop being your miserable self. Be careful, however, because even self-confidence hides many traps. Don’t forget that where your rights end, someone else’s begin. Don’t get caught up in the beautiful image of yourself – inside and out and spoil your relationships with those around you because of pride.